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		<title>Menu for the Week</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Sigh. So this gluten-free thing isn&#8217;t really working yet, as I still have a ton of stuff to get rid of from pantry, fridge, freezer. So next phase of the project is to get rid of everything. Hubby meanwhile (who&#8217;s the wheat-free guy) will only have the non-wheat stuff.</p> <p>This week&#8217;s menu: (will be linked [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sigh.  So this gluten-free thing isn&#8217;t really working yet, as I still have a ton of stuff to get rid of from pantry, fridge, freezer.  So next phase of the project is to get rid of everything.  Hubby meanwhile (who&#8217;s the wheat-free guy) will only have the non-wheat stuff.</p>
<p>This week&#8217;s menu:  (will be linked to recipes yesterday)</p>
<p>1.  Chocolate Stout Bread (to use up the Chocolate Stout that Aisa bought and didn&#8217;t like)<br />
2.  White Bean Chili (too many white beans in the freezer) ***<br />
3.  Roast chicken ***<br />
4.  Hot and Sour Soup (to use up the pork chops) ***<br />
5.  Banana-Spinach Smoothies for Dad and me &#8212; aka Liquid Banana Bread around here ***<br />
6.  Pan-roasted green beans with umeboshi dressing ***<br />
7.  Grilled fish (TBD, probably cod) with brown-butter caper sauce ***<br />
8.  Olive Bread<br />
9.  Spicy Crunchy Kochujang Shrimp ***<br />
10.  Sesame-Seed-Crusted Salmon<br />
11.  Potato-Pea Samosas with Tamarind Chutney<br />
12.  Minestrone ***<br />
13.  Lemon Poppy Seed Muffins<br />
14.  Mashed Lima Beans ***<br />
15.  Sour Cherry Cobbler<br />
16.  Ampalaya with Egg ***<br />
17.  Pear-Cherry-Brie Soup ***<br />
18.  Calabaza Soup ***<br />
19.  Celebration Bread</p>
<p>Dishes marked with *** are gluten-free.</p>
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		<title>Yena&#8217;s Reading List, March 2012</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Mar 2012 21:20:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>More Tales of Irish Saints &#8211; Alice Curtayne<br /> Convent Boarding School by Kenny<br /> The Ring of Truth by Teresa Bateman<br /> Sister Anne&#8217;s Hands by Marybeth Lorbiecki</p>]]></description>
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Convent Boarding School by Kenny<br />
The Ring of Truth by Teresa Bateman<br />
Sister Anne&#8217;s Hands by Marybeth Lorbiecki</p>
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		<title>New Gluten-Free Menu</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Mar 2012 18:23:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve just finished putting together a 31-day gluten-free menu for us. NO WHEAT, NO OATS, NO BARLEY, NO RYE. Some family members have dairy and egg allergies as well, so I&#8217;m limiting those, or for things like &#8220;lasagne&#8221; an alternative cheese will be used, or cheese skipped for that person altogether. Pasta dishes will use [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve just finished putting together a 31-day gluten-free menu for us.  <strong>NO WHEAT, NO OATS, NO BARLEY, NO RYE.</strong>  Some family members have dairy and egg allergies as well, so I&#8217;m limiting those, or for things like &#8220;lasagne&#8221; an alternative cheese will be used, or cheese skipped for that person altogether.  Pasta dishes will use <strong>brown rice pasta from Tinkyada</strong>, our favorite.  Our &#8220;flour&#8221; for things like muffins and brownies will be a gluten-free formula which I&#8217;ll post here.  We haven&#8217;t done this in 7 years, when we first discovered allergies, but for the next 30-90 days our family will be completely off these things, barring any work-related or scout camps/events where I can&#8217;t control the food :S .</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll be posting recipes to fill up a table and will post here as well.  A lot of the dishes are Filipino/Asian &#8212; you may google them, or check back here or comment to request a recipe.</p>
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		<title>Videos, Information, and a Call to Action</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Mar 2012 17:36:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>For a background on all of this, here again is the link to <a href="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/2012/02/29/fr-sammie-malettas-homily-religious-liberty-hhs-mandate-transcript/">the video of Fr. Sammie Maletta&#8217;s homily + transcript</a>.</p> <p>Last week, when we thought it couldn&#8217;t get any worse, we saw Sandra Fluke&#8217;s opening statement before the House Democratic Steering and Policy Committee. </p> <p></p> <p>If you Google &#8220;Sandra Fluke&#8221; and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For a background on all of this, here again is the link to <a href="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/2012/02/29/fr-sammie-malettas-homily-religious-liberty-hhs-mandate-transcript/">the video of Fr. Sammie Maletta&#8217;s homily + transcript</a>.</p>
<p>Last week, when we thought it couldn&#8217;t get any worse, we saw Sandra Fluke&#8217;s opening statement before the House Democratic Steering and Policy Committee.  </p>
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<p>If you Google &#8220;Sandra Fluke&#8221; and click only on links from mainstream media, most of the information you&#8217;ll find will refer to Rush Limbaugh&#8217;s use of the word &#8220;slut&#8221; when he was talking about her testimony.  These links, as to be expected, don&#8217;t tell the whole story.  Here&#8217;s <a href="http://thecollegeconservative.com/2012/03/02/sandra-fluke-does-not-speak-for-me/">more information on Sandra Fluke from a REAL Georgetown student</a> and <a href="http://thecollegeconservative.com/2012/03/05/a-fluke-in-the-religion-vs-birth-control-debate/">what&#8217;s really going on here</a>.  Meanwhile, traditional media continues to frame this as a contraception debate instead of a religious freedom debate, to propagate the lie that the Church oppresses women and all who need &#8220;reproductive health care&#8221;.</p>
<p>As in a well-orchestrated play, Planned Parenthood President Cecile Richards releases her <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H0RXKHg1Wzk">&#8220;I Have A Say&#8221; video</a> the day after Fluke&#8217;s statement, inviting women to share their thoughts on why birth control is an essential part of women&#8217;s health care.  (If you click to watch the video on YouTube instead, YouTube will give you related videos of other women &#8220;having their say&#8221;, including pro-abortion NARAL&#8217;s Nancy Keenan.)</p>
<p>We faithful Catholics, we who Occupy the Pews, we who believe in the teaching authority of the Magisterium and who know that our Truth comes from Scripture and Tradition, *could* just keep quiet about all this and offer it up&#8230;. or we could respond to  Fr. John Hollowell&#8217;s invitation and call to action:</p>
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<p>It would be great if we moms and our daughters and other women, young and old, could contribute to <a href="http://i--have--a--say.blogspot.com/">Fr. Hollowell&#8217;s blog specifically set up for this</a> by sending in a picture, a video or even just a short paragraph sharing our thoughts &#8212; because I don&#8217;t know about you, but neither Sandra Fluke nor Cecile Richards speaks for me.  We cannot and should not underestimate the power of alternative media &#8212; Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, blogs.  These ultra-liberal women are using precisely these tools to continue to brainwash those who unfortunately are only marginally aware about these issues.  Our Holy Father recognizes the reach that social media has, and even <a href="https://twitter.com/#!/pope2youvatican">he is Tweeting these 40 days of Lent</a>.  We, now more than ever, need to learn to use social media, to do our part to spread the Gospel Truth, and to defeat the father of lies and his minions.  </p>
<p>Oh, and I apologize in advance for this, but I just couldn&#8217;t resist.  I&#8217;m still working on becoming a turn-the-other-cheek Christian and Catholic&#8230; not quite there yet <img src='http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  !!!  So here it is&#8230;. the newest movie poster in town, which I found at <a href="http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-chat/2854359/posts">freerepublic.com</a>.  </p>
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		<title>Fr. Sammie Maletta&#8217;s Homily on Religious Liberty and the HHS Mandate (Transcript)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Feb 2012 23:29:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Prayers for and cheers to this courageous priest-lawyer for speaking the truth! May more of our priests be like him. Spread the word. </p> <p>I&#8217;m posting the transcript of his homily here for my parents&#8217; benefit. If you see any errors, please comment and I will edit.</p> <p></p> <p>In recent years, we&#8217;ve had cause to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Prayers for and cheers to this courageous priest-lawyer for speaking the truth!  May more of our priests be like him.  Spread the word.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m posting the transcript of his homily here for my parents&#8217; benefit.  If you see any errors, please comment and I will edit.</p>
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<blockquote><p>In recent years, we&#8217;ve had cause to discuss the subject of political speech from the pulpit here at St. John the Evangelist.  Many many many of you have regularly challenged me to speak out more frequently on matters that I deemed are purely political and as a result, I have refused to do so.  However, others are so sensitive about this that even when I recently recommended two of our parishioners that were running for local office, they became vocally upset.  Generally speaking, the message we priests preach  should not be political except when it comes to faith and morals.  What I&#8217;m about to share with you in my opinion moves beyond faith and morals and goes to our very existence to function and therefore I claim the right as your pastor.  I claim the right as an American citizen.  I claim the responsibility as a priest to speak what I perceive to be the truth.</p>
<p>Little more than three years ago, after Mr. Obama was elected but not yet sworn in as President of the United States of America, the bishops finally gave us priests permission to tell our congregations the truth about what Mr. Obama&#8217;s intention was and that was to force the Catholic Church to engage in morally repugnant actions or lose our ability to carry out the gospel message in health care, social services and education.  I gave a stirring talk that Sunday, and you as well as people across the country, because the priests in their parishes also got up and spoke, sent millions of cards, letters, phone calls to DC, demanding reassurances that the Obama administration would not proceed with its plans.  Almost immediately, the President-elect contacted the National Conference of Catholic Bishops and invited the bishops to a meeting, at which time he gave his word. He gave his word to our bishops that the conscience clause that exempts religious organizations from participating in those federal mandates that go against our conscience would not be disturbed.  At that time, President-elect Obama feigned surprise that Catholics would even think that he would do something like this.  And with those assurances, the bishops backed down.  Within a few months of his administration, Obamacare was introduced creating a deep division in our country as the President&#8217;s vision of comprehensive health care coverage became clearer.  Arguing that the poor would finally receive health care which is a longstanding goal of our bishops and of all Catholics, arguing also that the cost of healthcare under Obamacare would be reduced, another longstanding goal of our bishops and Catholics, the President asked the bishops to support this legislation.  They were once again given assurances that abortion, sterilization, and other so-called reproductive services would not be included in the legislation, at least not in a way that would compromise Catholic conscience.  As a whole the bishops declined to support that legislation. However, some naive bishops believed the President and came out in support of the ideas behind Obamacare.  </p>
<p>Last week all those assurances and promises President Obama made were broke and his true intentions made known when the Department of Health and Human Services announced that virtually all insurance plans must pay for reproductive services even if they are morally repugnant to the organizations, specifically including the Roman Catholic Church.  </p>
<p>Stop and think of this.  We are the one voice that speaks out clearly to this culture of death that abortion is wrong.  We are the one voice that speaks out clearly to this nation on issues of life.  And now we will be forced to actually pay for someone to have an abortion.  This is only part of the war that the Obama administration is quietly waging on the Catholic Church.  As I mentioned a few weeks ago, the US Labor Department has aggressively attempted to expand its control of how we conduct business.  This is one of the regulations, there&#8217;s about eight of them.  Imagine how thick that is. This is page after page, detailed.  I as a lawyer, it takes me about an hour to go through and try to understand each of these pages.  </p>
<p>Now, I&#8217;m your pastor!  Now, we have to comprehend and implement every detail of that because the government wants to get into our business and tell us how to run our business, how to run our Churches!  And there are no exemptions for us.  I mean it&#8217;s overwhelming, just stop and think of that.  How can I be pastor when I got to stick my nose in this kind of stuff every single day.  I can&#8217;t make a decision about the Church without going through all this stuff, and this is across the country.  </p>
<p>Furthermore, again as I mentioned a few weeks ago, federal moneys are being withheld from Catholic social services even though the Catholic services receive top ratings from the government.  The government creates the rating system, the government scores the rating system, the government sets the rating system.  Catholic social services get the highest score, even though part of that rating service is to penalize the Catholic church because we don&#8217;t provide reproductive services.  And so the scores drop down, even after that, we&#8217;re higher than others.  And consistently the government is giving money to other organizations with lower scores in other words to other organizations who reach fewer people, do it less effectively and cost more, will not give it to us because we do not provide reproductive services.  </p>
<p>One would think that many of the objectives of the Obama administration would be consistent with Catholic objectives, relative to caring for the forgotten, the underprivileged and the needy.  The president has been most eloquent in speaking about this segment of society and frankly, his words are very appealing to our sensitivity as Roman Catholics.  So why is this president&#8217;s administration so intent on destroying the Catholic Church&#8217;s ability to perform our ministries which we do better and for less than the government can do?</p>
<p>Why is President Obama&#8217;s administration, with all the problems in this world, with the economy, with terrorism, with our country being sold to China, with Iran possibly becoming a nuclear power, with all these things.  Why is it so obsessed on reproductive services and so obsessed by forcing us to go against our faith to do what they want us to do in that matter?</p>
<p>The Catholic Church is the largest non-government provider of health services, social services and education.  If the government can put us out of business, and make no mistake, the Bishop is right, we cannot and we will not follow this law.  We will close down our schools, our hospitals, our nursing homes, our orphanages.  We will go out of business in that area before we will pay to have a child murdered.</p>
<p>And once we are out of business, there will be literally millions of people suffering because who will provide those services for them?  There will be a gap, a crisis in our nation and then we begin to see the real issue that&#8217;s going on here, because once that happens the government can reasonably argue that we cannot as a nation allow that suffering to continue.  And the government will step in and provide less effective and more costly services which will mean more government employees, more individuals who become completely dependent on government help.  Taxes will be raised to cover this, and the ultimate goal behind all this is exposed, for the United States of America will be one step closer to socialism.  And in every country that has become socialistic, religion has become peripheral, but you&#8217;ll be able to have reproductive services available at every corner.</p>
<p>Why is the Obama&#8217;s presidency so addicted to expanding abortion and so called reproductive services on all of America and forcing Catholics to participate in what we consider to be the culture of death?  Why would they sacrifice the First Amendment of the United States Constitution in favor of reproductive services? When did reproductive services become the national cry of our nation?  When did it become more important than the Bill of Rights? More important than the Constitution?  </p>
<p>And so before you get upset with me or any priest at our bishops&#8217; instruction for addressing a political issue, get more upset over what&#8217;s happening in this country on this issue and how it will be devastating to your Church!  I especially address those of you who voted for this President.  I cannot believe that you voted for this, and now, I need you and all of us to stand up for the First Amendment, to defend your Church and to stand up for your Catholic faith.  This week, we are going to follow the Bishops&#8217; instruction and I ask you all to pray, to fast, to ask God for wisdom.  </p>
<p>Next week we will have materials available for you to let your voice be heard to do what we can to stop this.  We need to contact DC and demand that the longstanding conscience clause is respected and preserved even under Obamacare.</p>
<p>Let our message be clear.  President Obama, let us be Catholic!  And let us continue to contribute to this great nation as Catholics providing vital services and care especially to that segment of our nation that needs us the most.  Let the Church say Amen.</p>
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<p>You can read more about Fr. Sammie Maletta <a href="http://www.courageouspriest.com/father-sammie-maletta-hhs-mandate">here</a>.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s pray, fast, pray, fast, pray, and fast some more.  </p>
<p>St. Michael, defend us in battle!  Mama Mary, ora pro nobis!</p>
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		<title>Lent, In Which I Read Science Fiction</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Feb 2012 05:31:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0553573918/?tag=catholichom0a-20"></a>This is my Lenten penance for the year. I just finished reading Icarus Hunt by Timothy Zahn. An exciting read, at least it gets exciting about halfway through. I had to drag myself through the first few chapters because I am so not a science fiction fan. Our kids are definitely a mesh of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0553573918/?tag=catholichom0a-20"><img src="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/icarushunt.png" alt="" title="icarushunt" width="190" height="304" class="alignright size-full wp-image-3383" /></a>This is my Lenten penance for the year.  I just finished reading Icarus Hunt by Timothy Zahn.  An exciting read, at least it gets exciting about halfway through.  I had to drag myself through the first few chapters because I am so not a science fiction fan.  Our kids are definitely a mesh of their dad and me &#8212; he loves science fiction shows/movies, but books? Not so much (that&#8217;s why he gets Catholic audiobooks for Christmas and his birthday <img src='http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  ).  I love books, period, but not the science fiction kind.  Our kids are fans of both.  And they have this nasty habit of devouring books way too quickly for Mom to ever catch up.  We were bound to hit a snag somewhere and we did, as they outgrew the books and booklists that I painstakingly handpicked for them&#8230; yes, I&#8217;m still whining about it.  Oh, they&#8217;ll read a Chesterton here and there,  and Tolkien, and saint and knight books will always hold their attention, but I&#8217;m afraid they&#8217;ve developed their own tastes and have gone way beyond &#8220;true, good and beautiful&#8221;.  And I thought somewhere along the line they&#8217;d rub off on me and I would develop a liking for this particular genre, but I&#8217;m afraid it just isn&#8217;t in my <strike>jeans</strike> genes.  Me being the conscientious Mom that I am (LOL), I finally <strike>asked</strike> <strike>begged</strike>bribed <strike>commanded</strike> <strike>threatened</strike> offered the option that I would pre-read the books, but you know how that goes.  They give me their list, I put it off, put it off, and put it off again.  Months later they try to sneak the books into  the house from the library and I throw a fit and back they go to the library, or they get GROUNDED from the library, or I demand that they leave the books on my bedside table, where they gather dust and cobwebs&#8230;. and then the $20 overdue bill comes from the library.  And then the cycle begins all over again.</p>
<p>But!  NOT THIS LENT.  This Lent, as part of my penitence, I am once more becoming THE INVOLVED MOM, and getting into the things that my children are into.  I have 4 science fiction books on my bedside table, besides my Liturgy of the Hours and The Weight of Glory (hah!  I&#8217;ll read any CS Lewis you hand me but PLEASE don&#8217;t make me read Perelandra again!!!) and my very Filipino Pasyon.  AND I just requested 3 more science fiction books from the library.  All for my boys.</p>
<p>It certainly is a Lent that&#8217;s looking very different from previous Lents.  Last year, I didn&#8217;t get off Facebook because that&#8217;s where I primarily communicate with our pro-life group.  But I desperately needed the break this year.  Not from them, not from the pro-life stuff (although everybody needs a little time away from all that, every now and then at least).  I needed a break because I needed to reconnect with my boys, on a different level, this year.  At 15 and 13, they&#8217;re not getting any younger (no, neither am I), and too often my mom&#8217;s words echo in my ears &#8212; &#8220;Those teen years, they go&#8230;. just like that!  In the blink of an eye, they become men.&#8221;  While I fully trust their dad to shepherd them from this icky tricky stage all the way to manhood, I cannot stand by and be the half-hearted mom that I am, at least some days.  I&#8217;m so not a scout mom, and I&#8217;m so not a science fiction mom, and I&#8217;m so not a video game mom.  And this Lent I&#8217;d like to just be a bit more of all of those things.  All for my boys. </p>
<p>Lent looks different from home to home and from person to person.  It&#8217;s hard sometimes to make people understand this, that we don&#8217;t all have the same spiritual needs.  But we do.  My 20-year-old this week was talking about the spiritual works of mercy and how her work this week was &#8220;counsel the ignorant&#8221;.  I don&#8217;t have her circumstances.  So while I can help her with facts and figures to strengthen her arguments and add a bit to her confidence, I can&#8217;t fight this fight for her &#8212; not that she needs me to anyway.  And I can&#8217;t fight the demons my 15-year-old is fighting as he makes his Consecration this Lenten season.  It hit me like a bolt of lightning the other day as I was mulling over his attitude the past couple of days and WHY, OH WHY it&#8217;s the first few days of Lent and we&#8217;re already on our 3rd argument&#8230; ARGH.  But OF COURSE!  It&#8217;s Lent.  And we both have Lenten resolutions that while not being too lofty are quite formidable, because we do take Lent seriously, especially this year when we have SO MUCH that we are praying for (hint:  do the letters HHS mean anything to you?).  And the 13-yo &#8212; this is his confirmation year, and so I see him struggling over choices and challenges and I see him trying so hard to beat down some of those childish attitudes and habits that had unfortunately taken hold of him in the past, and I want to be there, more than I&#8217;ve ever been.  All for my boys.  (I haven&#8217;t forgotten my girls either, but then Mom and girls have a way of reconnecting over something as simple as a hand-hold or a pat. <img src='http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> )</p>
<p>And so I sign off, a little more encouraged, especially tonight when I just met a lovely mom and daughter who was part of one of the local Catholic homeschooling groups!  The daughter wears &#8212; blessing of blessings &#8212; sacrifice beads on her wrist.  You just don&#8217;t know how that makes me feel, as a mom&#8230;. knowing that my child has someone she can hang around who UNDERSTANDS and KNOWS how important this season is to her.  My boys are fortunate too in this respect.  They have young men their age, and those young men&#8217;s fathers, and of course my own dear hubby who&#8217;s the best dad ever.  God is good to us, and I know this season is going to be truly fruitful.  In more ways than one, it already is.</p>
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		<title>The Things They Say</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2012 23:20:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/yenaninofeb2012.jpg"></a>Mom: I injured my index finger last week, and now I injured my middle finger! What&#8217;s next?<br /> Yena, 10: Maybe that&#8217;s why God gave you five fingers.</p> <p>At lunch:</p> <p>Mom: Wow, my finger is healing really well! I wish I had taken pictures to document the healing process!<br /> Yena: Or, you could [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/yenaninofeb2012.jpg"><img src="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/yenaninofeb2012.jpg" alt="" title="yenaninofeb2012" width="450" height="300" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3371" /></a>Mom:  I injured my index finger last week, and now I injured my middle finger!  What&#8217;s next?<br />
Yena, 10:  Maybe that&#8217;s why God gave you five fingers.</p>
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<p>At lunch:</p>
<p>Mom:  Wow, my finger is healing really well!  I wish I had taken pictures to document the healing process!<br />
Yena:  Or, you could cut it again!</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/ninofeb2012.jpg"><img src="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/ninofeb2012.jpg" alt="" title="ninofeb2012" width="450" height="675" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3372" /></a></p>
<p>I bought some gummy vitamins again, something I don&#8217;t do all the time because I prefer the kids get all their nutrients via food/the sun <img src='http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> .<br />
Nino can now take two gummy bears a day, so we give him one in the morning and one in the evening.  He doesn&#8217;t quite get the concept yet so we tell him he can get the next one when it&#8217;s light/dark.  This morning at breakfast:</p>
<p>Nino, 3:  Can I have another gummy bear now? (after having his morning vite)<br />
Mom:  When it&#8217;s dark.<br />
Nino:  Why, Mommy?  Why do you keep saying dark, then light, then dark, then light?  [punctuates with frustrated groan]</p>
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		<title>Some Thoughts on Ash Wednesday</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/ash_wednesday.jpg"></a>Ash Wednesday is the beginning of an emptying that continues throughout the forty days of Lent. In the Philippines we call the Liturgical Season of Lent cuaresma, from the Latin word <a href="http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/12589a.htm">quadragesima</a>, or forty. Today, Ash Wednesday, is like that metabolism boost at the beginning of a diet wherein one&#8217;s body is made [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/ash_wednesday.jpg"><img src="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/ash_wednesday.jpg" alt="Ash Wednesday by Carl Spitzweg" title="ash_wednesday" width="250" height="378" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3361" /></a>Ash Wednesday is the beginning of an emptying that continues throughout the forty days of Lent.  In the Philippines we call the Liturgical Season of Lent <strong><em>cuaresma</em></strong>, from the Latin word <a href="http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/12589a.htm"><em>quadragesima</em></a>, or forty.  Today, Ash Wednesday, is like that metabolism boost at the beginning of a diet wherein one&#8217;s body is made to go through a bit of a shock at the sudden, unexpected change.  This is also why Lent is a great time to start a diet.  Though losing weight isn&#8217;t quite the goal for Lent, a spiritual and physical emptying happening concurrently moves us closer to the real goal like a jumpstarter.  Spirit and body are so intertwined that physical hunger ignites a spiritual hunger as well.  In a world where instant gratification has become the norm, Lent affords a break that we as spiritual beings desperately need.  I for one had been looking forward to Ash Wednesday this year with much anticipation.  Once again I&#8217;m reminded of the phrase &#8220;invisible made visible&#8221;.  Our spiritual growth isn&#8217;t something that&#8217;s readily perceivable through the senses, but that sensation of physical hunger makes spiritual hunger more palpable.  We are better able to get in touch with the longing in our core &#8212; a longing that can only be satisfied by Him Who feeds us.  This deliberate removal of myself from the things I hold dear in this earthly world brings me to increased intimacy with my Creator.  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s the same reason Lent is the perfect time to declutter the house.  As we unburden our homes of the stuff that tends to creep in and pile up through the year, we begin to make room for order, and thus simplicity and beauty, to shine.  Especially where we live in the first world, where there is an abundance of the material, our homes have the potential to become storehouses of junk, not necessarily because our things are not functional or helpful, but because their sheer number rarely leaves room for the special to be given pride of place.  Likewise, when Lent is not observed properly, Easter becomes just one more day to feast and make merry.  Lent for me needs to become the arduous journey to Easter, for my spirit to be suffused to the brim with the joy of Christ&#8217;s Resurrection.  How much sweeter Easter becomes when the sacrifices of Lent are allowed to burrow deep into one&#8217;s soul.  </p>
<p>Once more this Lent I will try to pick up all the bits and pieces of my scattered existence (the natural effects of a scattered brain), and pray for the grace to fuse all of these into some form closer to a unified whole &#8212; one better attuned to my Savior, at once stronger and yet more capable of bending to follow His Will.  Aisa and I were discussing this the other day, how the past two years have been marked with lessons on detachment for both of us &#8212; we were on parallel journeys and didn&#8217;t know it.  My journey as I approach middle age is geared towards a preparation for the inevitable &#8212; death.  I don&#8217;t want to get to the end of my life not being able to let go, because I hadn&#8217;t learned the lesson of letting go bit by bit.  Despite our living in the same house and having many shared experiences, this learning looks very different from her perspective as it does from mine.  As I detach myself every Lent from things, places, ungodly thoughts and concerns, people, I am brought to a different plane in my relationship with God.  It&#8217;s so easy in the day-to-day to develop an attitude of extreme self-reliance, of being attached to the idea that &#8220;I&#8221; make things happen.  By emptying my personal and spiritual spaces of their familiar comforts, a clearer vision of reality appears:  I am a creature wholly dependent on God for my every need &#8212; He is Who sustains me.  In removing the inessential and dusting off the crannies in my heart and soul, I prepare myself to partake in greater spiritual gifts and graces I had previously been oblivious to.  My very human hands tend to clutch and grab and hold on, stubbornly, tenaciously.  Lent is a time to allow a prying open of these fingers, slowly, sometimes painfully&#8230; in order to receive and let His blessings flow more freely, that I may become a more suitable conduit of grace for those around me.  This makes Lent a special gift indeed from the Redeemer, Who knows our every need.</p>
<p><strong>More from my reading list today:</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;A junk drawer is the classic repository for what we are meant to leave behind. Not only does it symbolize our histories, but it also reveals the speed at which we lived through them: how did a sunflower seed wind up among the rubber bands and old corks, and this seventy-five-year-old baptismal gown stuffed into a brown paper sack?&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p> from <a href="http://catholicexchange.com/cleaning-out-the-junk/">Cleaning Out the Junk</a>, an excerpt from Paula Huston&#8217;s book Simplifying the Soul</p>
<blockquote><p>Another point, however: there are some Catholics, such as myself, who won&#8217;t have an ash-marked forehead today, because Ash Wednesday is not part of the Eastern Catholic and Orthodox observation of the Great Fast, which begins on Clean Monday, two days ago (following Cheese-fare Sunday, the last day dairy products can be eaten).</p></blockquote>
<p> &#8211; from <a href="http://insightscoop.typepad.com/2004/2012/02/when-a-man-leaves-on-a-journey-he-must-know-where-he-is-going-thus-with-lent-.html">&#8220;When a man leaves on a journey, he must know where he is going. Thus with Lent&#8230;&#8221;</a>.  This is interesting to me because I have friends who are considering Eastern Catholicism, which in turn piqued my daughter&#8217;s.</p>
<p>From the Holy Father:<br />
<blockquote>This wilderness is made up of &#8220;the aridity and poverty of words, life and values, of secularism and the culture of materialism which enclose people within a worldly horizon and detach them from any reference to transcendence. In such an atmosphere the sky above us is dark, because veiled with clouds of selfishness, misunderstanding and deceit. Nonetheless, even for the Church today, the wilderness can become a period of grace, because we have the certainty that even from the hardest rock God can cause the living water to gush forth, water which quenches thirst and restores strength&#8221;.</p></blockquote>
<p> &#8211; <a href="http://insightscoop.typepad.com/2004/2012/02/benedict-xvi-the-time-leading-up-to-easter-is-a-time-of-metanoia-a-time-of-change-and-penance.html">Benedict XVI: &#8220;The time leading up to Easter is a time of &#8216;metanoia&#8217;, a time of change and penance&#8230;.&#8221;</a></p>
<p>And might not be immediately identifiable as Lenten reading, but this made me tear up today.  A must read:  <a href="http://www.catholicvote.org/discuss/index.php?p=27110">Frodo Is In Africa</a>.  Dear fellow Catholics, take heart!</p>
<blockquote><p>What “surge in atheism”? There is no such thing, outside Starbucks booths and university hallways.  By one estimate cited in God Is Back, in 1900, 67% of the world population was composed of members of the four major religions. In 2005 it was 73% of world. By 2050 it could be 80% of the world. Atheism is at its weakest point in memory, and it is waning.</p>
<p>And Christianity isn’t just surging by some vague demographic necessity; it is surging like a springtime. Our new Christians are filled with unpredictable energy and unabashed enthusiasm, unencumbered by the baggage we carry in the West.</p></blockquote>
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<p><strong>A Postscript:  God Has a Mean Sense of Humor</strong></p>
<p>Not going to bore with details, but yesterday I thought my grocery budget wasn&#8217;t going to last us &#8217;til the end of the month.  Imagine my surprise after writing in my prayer journal today and finding some money that the hubby had given me weeks ago&#8230; inside the pages of the Breviary, which I hadn&#8217;t opened in a while as I was using Divine Office online&#8230; today I switched back to the books.  And He did it again!  I cannot wait to get to Heaven and ask Him how hard He laughs when He plays these little jokes on me.  I should have trusted instead of worrying.  Thank You Lord.</p>
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		<title>Lenten Plans</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I am keeping it REALLY, REALLY SIMPLE this Lent. </p> <p>We are using <a href="http://familyfeastandferia.wordpress.com">Jenn</a>&#8216;s <a href="http://familyfeastandferia.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/lent-for-children-daily-display-2012.pdf">Lent for Children</a>. </p> <p>This evening I also put together a music playlist based on the suggestions <a href="http://4real.thenetsmith.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=26551">in this thread</a>.</p> <p>Our mornings will begin with this Lenten Novena:</p> <p>Father, all-powerful and ever-living God, during the Holy Season of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am keeping it REALLY, REALLY SIMPLE this Lent.  </p>
<p>We are using <a href="http://familyfeastandferia.wordpress.com">Jenn</a>&#8216;s <a href="http://familyfeastandferia.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/lent-for-children-daily-display-2012.pdf">Lent for Children</a>.  </p>
<p>This evening I also put together a music playlist based on the suggestions <a href="http://4real.thenetsmith.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=26551">in this thread</a>.</p>
<p>Our mornings will begin with this Lenten Novena:</p>
<blockquote><p>Father, all-powerful and ever-living God, during the Holy Season of Lent, You call us to a closer union with Yourself. Help me to prepare to celebrate the Paschal Mystery with mind and heart renewed. Give me a spirit of loving reverence for You, our Father, and of willing service to my neighbor. As I recall the great events that gave us new life in Christ, bring the image of Your Son to perfection within my soul.</p>
<p>This great season of grace is Your gift to Your family to renew us in spirit. Give me strength to purify my heart, to control my desires, and so to serve You in freedom. Teach me how to live in this passing world with my heart set on the world that will never end.</p>
<p>I ask for the grace to master my sinfulness and conquer my pride. I want to show to those in need Your goodness to me by being kind to all.</p>
<p>Through my observance of Lent, help me to correct my faults and raise my mind to You, and thus grow in holiness, that I may deserve the reward of everlasting life.</p>
<p>In Your mercy grant me this special favor: (Mention your request).</p>
<p>The days of the life-giving Death and glorious Resurrection of Jesus Christ, Your Son, are approaching. This is the hour when He triumphed over Satan’s pride, the time when we celebrate the great event of our Redemption. The Suffering and Death of Your Son brought life to the whole world, moving our hearts to praise Your glory.</p>
<p>The power of the Cross reveals You judgment on this world and the kingship of Christ crucified. Father, through His love for us and through His Sufferings, Death and Resurrection, may I gain eternal life with You in heaven. Amen.
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<p>Thursday evenings will be for Eucharistic Adoration, and Fridays will be for Stations of the Cross.  As in previous years we will be using our homemade set that we put together 7 years ago.  Next year, Nino will probably be ready to join us in making a new set.</p>
<p>For money offerings, we&#8217;ve got a baby bottle that Yena got from a fellow AHG&#8217;er that will benefit a local crisis pregnancy center.  Besides this we&#8217;ve got a date reserved to help out with Kids Against Hunger.  I haven&#8217;t looked at our Saturdays yet but if there are any that are open we&#8217;ll most likely join the prayer warriors at the abortion mill.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve also stocked our freezer with an assortment of beans and fish.  Our family likes beans and we have them at least once a week, but this Lent I would like to shoot for 3 times a week.</p>
<p>Beyond that, we&#8217;ll just be doing a lot of the usual reading and discussing, but with a particular focus on sacrifice and detachment.  The basement decluttering wasn&#8217;t finished last year, but we got half of it done at least.  This is the year we finish the other half!!</p>
<p>Lastly, for the first time in months I got an anti-life comment on this blog tonight.  The evil one is gearing up, looks like &#8212; so we&#8217;re doing our best to arm ourselves!!</p>
<p>Mama Mary, ora pro nobis!</p>
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		<title>Surprise, Surprise!! (Movies from &#8220;Our&#8221; Time)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 01:52:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/Back_to_the_future1.jpg"></a><a href="http://www.commonsensemedia.org/new/watch-out-family-movies-surprisingly-sexy-scenes">Reading this post</a> reminded me of something revelatory that happened to me and my local group of homeschooling moms. We recently had a &#8220;Mom&#8217;s Night Out&#8221; (actually a Mom&#8217;s Night In, since a homeschooling mom usually hosts it at her home) and the topic of old movies came up. We&#8217;re all big fans [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/Back_to_the_future1.jpg"><img src="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/Back_to_the_future1.jpg" alt="" title="Back_to_the_future" width="200" height="315" class="alignright size-full wp-image-3310" /></a><a href="http://www.commonsensemedia.org/new/watch-out-family-movies-surprisingly-sexy-scenes">Reading this post</a> reminded me of something revelatory that happened to me and my local group of homeschooling moms.  We recently had a &#8220;Mom&#8217;s Night Out&#8221; (actually a Mom&#8217;s Night In, since a homeschooling mom usually hosts it at her home) and the topic of old movies came up.  We&#8217;re all big fans of period movies: Austen and Gaskell and Dickens, etc. But we also got to talking about movies that we grew up watching, like Back to the Future and Ferris Bueller.  And we all burst out laughing at the discovery that we&#8217;ve all, at one point or another, shown our kids some movie that we enjoyed 20-30 years ago, only to be shocked &#8212; along with our kids &#8212; that there actually were some very inappropriate scenes or language.  These are scenes we wouldn&#8217;t have dared show the kids had we remembered that those scenes were there!  Imagine us expecting a movie to be <strong>family-friendly</strong> as we remembered it to be, compared to the shows that are available now, and then as we sit there together, suddenly from out of nowhere some scene/word comes up and catches us totally unprepared, as if we had never seen/heard it before!  The funny thing is that this seems to be a fairly common phenomenon even among us (six moms at the last &#8220;meeting&#8221;) and we were trying to figure out what it is that made us forget.  We&#8217;ve talked about the possible reasons for this but it was getting late and we all needed to go, so here I am a few weeks later thinking back and expanding further.  </p>
<p>1.  It happened so long ago, and we&#8217;re so old now, that we&#8217;ve simply forgotten how inappropriate it was! <img src='http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
2.  The indoctrination has been so sneaky and insidious in coming that 10, 20, 30 years ago, we hadn&#8217;t realized it, though even then it was already happening right in front of our eyes.<br />
3.  Because it was a more innocent time, the words/scenes just really didn&#8217;t have that much bearing on how we lived our lives or conducted ourselves.  The society we lived in was more supportive of morality in general, so even though the media portrayed one thing, what we viewed on TV or listened to on the radio was more of an escape for us, &#8220;another world&#8221; so to speak, not really something we wanted or needed to emulate in our own lives.  Contrast that to today&#8217;s reality shows that reek of hypersexualized language and actions and dress, and then look around when you walk in a mall and see the tremendous effect they&#8217;ve had on our youth.<br />
4.  We had enough of a life so far apart from media that our reality vs. fantasy rarely blurred.  There was a distinct separation between real and not real &#8212; something that is harder to distinguish these days as the youth (and sometimes/often we ourselves) are constantly plugged in to radio, TV, the &#8216;Net, etc.  What was &#8220;fantasy&#8221; back then is almost nonexistent now; we live a huge part of our lives in cyberspace.  No wonder many of our youth are hopelessly lost.<br />
5.  TV ratings and editing back then were also very different.  The kinds of shows these days that are deemed okay for &#8220;Y-7&#8243; would not have been considered appropriate for a 7-year-old in the 1980s.  Through the years, more and more of the crass language, hyper-sexualized dialogues and scenes have received the &#8220;okay&#8221; for progressively younger segments of the population.  Conversely, what used to be considered childhood entertainment, such as cartoons and brainless shows, are now regular fare even for adults who supposedly should be past the stage of being sucked into this kind of pastime.</p>
<p><strong>We&#8217;ve created a media culture where we encourage children to grow up quicker than they normally would, and at the same time we keep adults from ever growing up.  With this media culture being so pervasive, many people find it difficult to keep these external influences from getting into their psyche.  As a result we&#8217;ve got this society now where most people are operating at an adolescent level, both young and old.  One very obvious manifestation of this is dress.  You&#8217;ve got toddlers and young girls dressing up like lingerie models, and you&#8217;ve got 50-year-olds wearing skin-baring, tight clothing that would truly look less disgusting (though not much more modest) on women 20 or 30 years younger.  It&#8217;s not as bad with the guys, but every now and then I see young boys dressed up like gangsters and body builders, and 50-year-old men who look like they still need their moms to shop for them.</strong></p>
<p>We&#8217;ve barely scratched the surface of this discussion and I&#8217;m sure we&#8217;ll be talking about it again in future Mom&#8217;s nights.  I am very lucky to have this group of moms to share insights and experiences with.  Since we tend to be on the same page on a wide variety of family concerns, it&#8217;s easier to plan activities that offer our children the kind of shared experiences we would like them to have.  A blessing for sure.</p>
<p>The most apparent effects of media in culture aren&#8217;t really surprising, when you&#8217;re looking through the macro lens of right-here-right-now.  It&#8217;s when you shift to the wide-angle lens that you get a more proper sense of how things changed over time, both locally and globally.  And I&#8217;d be failing my kids miserably if I don&#8217;t give them a chance to look at the view from both lenses.</p>
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		<title>People of Faith, Stand Up and Be Counted</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>These are exciting times. Religious persecution is a scary thing, I don&#8217;t think my children even fully grasp yet what is happening right now in the country, though we&#8217;ve explained it to them. But to see people of all faiths standing up for what is right, not just because it&#8217;s in our Constitution, but because [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These are exciting times.  Religious persecution is a scary thing, I don&#8217;t think my children even fully grasp yet what is happening right now in the country, though we&#8217;ve explained it to them.  But to see people of all faiths standing up for what is right, not just because it&#8217;s in our Constitution, but because it is God&#8217;s will, is encouraging and moving.  I&#8217;m grateful to be living in this century.  </p>
<p><a href="https://twitter.com/#!/RickWarren/status/167072427300487168"><img src="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/screenshot.png" alt="" title="screenshot" width="524" height="164" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3245" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://twitter.com/#!/RickWarren/status/167071139280072706"><img src="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/screenshot1.png" alt="" title="screenshot" width="532" height="248" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3246" /></a></p>
<p>Pastor Warren, of course, is the guy who interviewed Obama in 2008 on his thoughts about abortion and when life begins:  </p>
<p><a href="http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0808/17/se.01.html"><img src="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/screenshot4.png" alt="" title="screenshot" width="745" height="105" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3250" /></a></p>
<p>and <a href="http://www.politico.com/politico44/2012/02/rick-warren-knocks-obama-over-contraception-113891.html">delivered the invocation at Obama&#8217;s inauguration</a>.</p>
<p>Hockey player <a href="http://www.timthomashockey.com/index.php">Tim Thomas of the Boston Bruins</a> has spoken up too.  </p>
<p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/TimThomasOfficialPage/posts/324229287619485"><img src="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/screenshot5.png" alt="" title="screenshot" width="840" height="242" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3253" /></a></p>
<p>It&#8217;s an exciting time because you see not only Catholics you&#8217;ve long-respected and admired, but other, fellow Catholics who are speaking up for the faith, like <a href="http://www.mikludwig.com/research.html">psychotherapist Dr. Michael Ludwig</a>:</p>
<p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/MikLudwig"><img src="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/ludwig.png" alt="" title="ludwig" width="833" height="145" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3265" /></a></p>
<p>But that&#8217;s not the end of it.  <a href="http://www.intervarsity.org/news/stake-religious-liberty">The</a> <a href="http://assemblyofbishops.org/news/releases/protest-against-hhs">non-Catholics</a> <a href="http://michaelmilton.org/2012/02/02/insuring-religous-liberty-obamacare-ronald-reagan-and-the-current-crisis-of-conscience-in-america/">are</a> <a href="http://www.lcms.org/page.aspx?pid=1330">speaking</a> <a href="http://www.nae.net/news/715-press-release-evangelicals-disappointed-with-white-house-decision-on-conscience-protection">out</a> <a href="http://www.ouipa.org/2012/union-of-orthodox-jewish-congregations-critiques-administration-denial-of-expanded-exemption-for-religious-entities-liberties-in-health-insurance-plans-calls-on-congress-to-redress-through-legislat/#.TzR5oeNWpfw">too</a>!  (Hooray, humans for religious freedom!)</p>
<p>And of course <a href="http://www.catholicvote.org/discuss/index.php?p=25591">our dear, faithful bishops</a>.  God bless them!  </p>
<p>What&#8217;s funny is the normally pro-abort pro-contraception secular media, FOR ONCE!!, is <a href="http://www.usatoday.com/news/opinion/editorials/story/2012-02-05/contraception-mandate-religious-freedom/52975796/1">with us</a> on this one.  We may not agree on many important issues of our day, but they still recognize religious persecution when they see it.</p>
<p>Indeed, it&#8217;s time to push back.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.priestsforlife.org/articles/3947-lawsuit-against-obama-administration-for-conscience-violation"><img src="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/screenshot2.png" alt="" title="screenshot" width="1010" height="612" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3247" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.ewtn.com/hhsmandate/"><img src="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/screenshot3.png" alt="" title="screenshot" width="987" height="835" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3249" /></a></p>
<p>See, what some of the world does not get yet, is that there are those of us who actually care about humans, more than we care about sea turtle eggs (nothing against sea turtles, though you gotta admit they&#8217;re not as warm and huggable as a human baby).</p>
<p><a href="http://www.thecotas.com/2012/01/sea-turtle-nests-protected-by-state-and-federal-law/"><img src="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/seaturtle.jpg" alt="" title="seaturtle" width="720" height="482" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3257" /></a></p>
<p>Know what I mean? They&#8217;re just not as cuddly as, you know, humans.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/hugging.png"><img src="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/hugging.png" alt="" title="hugging" width="501" height="186" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3272" /></a></p>
<p>If you&#8217;re not Catholic, and you&#8217;re not understanding the reason behind all the uproar, it&#8217;s because the main issue here is <a href="http://www.nctimes.com/news/opinion/columnists/parker/parker-this-isn-t-about-the-pill/article_e5ade4de-9c8e-5b53-82fa-721b371c847e.html">Not the PILL</a>, it&#8217;s religious freedom.  <a href="http://bryankemper.com/2012/02/09/we-are-suing-president-obama-and-his-administration-you-dont-adapt-to-injustice-you-oppose-it/">You don&#8217;t adapt to injustice, you oppose it.</a>  In that sense, <a href="http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2012/02/08/are-all-catholics-now/">we are all Catholics now</a>.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re a person of faith, you should be up in arms too, because some people can be very very deceptive about the truth, calling evil good.  Some of them love abortion so much, being appointed Planned Parenthood&#8217;s new President is now equivalent to <a href="http://www.ppaction.org/site/PageNavigator/tx_pphset_newceo.html">&#8220;a sacred duty&#8221;</a>.   Well yeah, it&#8217;s sacred alright.  In an anti-Christ sort of way….</p>
<p>And what about our youth?  Long have they been given the lie that the pill is &#8220;the answer&#8221;.  But like most &#8220;magic band-aid solutions&#8221; that this government seems to think helpful, this mandate will only serve to increase cases <a href="http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2012/02/09/former-texas-high-school-coach-faces-felony-charges-for-allegedly-giving-student/">like this one</a>.</p>
<p>And then there are those who are <a href="http://www.foxnews.com/on-air/on-the-record/2012/02/09/former-democratic-congressman-key-obamacares-passage-betrayed-contraception-mandate#ixzz1lu4daGhd'>still talking from one of side of their mouth</a>.  Uhm, Mr. Stupak, we haven&#8217;t forgotten that <a href="http://www.weeklystandard.com/blogs/why-did-stupak-sell-out">you sold us out</a> and then quit very conveniently right after.  And you&#8217;re disappointed now?  Really?  You *knew* this was coming!  We certainly did.  </p>
<p>Another shocker! (Not.)  <a href="http://proecclesia.blogspot.com/2012/02/doug-kmiec-thinks-hes-breaking-up-with.html">Doug Kmiec &#8220;breaks up&#8221; with Mr. O</a>, though we&#8217;ll have to wait and see on that one.  Me not trusting him after 2008.  :/</p>
<p>Our waters are already polluted, a contraceptive mandate will make more contraceptives available to even more people, and <a href="http://americanvisionnews.com/1674/former-monsanto-lawyers-now-fda-czar-leads-raids-on-amish-organic-producers">the assault continues on the few remaining farmers</a> we trust to produce food that won&#8217;t kill us. But what we do we expect from <a href="http://www.lifenews.com/2010/11/07/obamaabortionrecord/">the most anti-life administration ever</a>, right?</p>
<p>Compromise schmompromise.  <a href=http://www.ncregister.com/daily-news/bishops-not-invited-to-white-house-hhs-discussions">Who do they think they&#8217;re kidding?</a>  <a href="http://spectator.org/archives/2012/02/07/the-audacity-of-obamas-secular">Enough is enough!</a>  Enough of the <a href="http://canonlawblog.wordpress.com/2012/02/07/nancy-pelosi-deserves-to-be-taken-seriously-very-seriously/">CINO</a>s!  We&#8217;ve let way too many things pass. <a href="http://www.ncregister.com/blog/why-the-popes-army-will-not-kneel-to-the-hhs-mandate">This army will not kneel to the HHS mandate!!</a></p>
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		<title>A Mom-Daughter Date</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 02:56:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>stef</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p></p> <p>Savored some precious bonding moments with oldest daughter this afternoon. She invited me to their dress rehearsal for tomorrow&#8217;s concert and at first I didn&#8217;t want to come because it was a Saturday and&#8230; too many things! to do! chores to catch up on! kids&#8217; Latin worksheets to check! laundry to do!&#8230; and then [...]]]></description>
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<p>Savored some precious bonding moments with oldest daughter this afternoon.  She invited me to their dress rehearsal for tomorrow&#8217;s concert and at first I didn&#8217;t want to come because it was a Saturday and&#8230; too many things!  to do!  chores to catch up on!  kids&#8217; Latin worksheets to check!  laundry to do!&#8230; and then I thought, if I don&#8217;t go, and in a few years she happens to have been whisked away by Prince Charming, or is getting ready to profess final vows at the convent, I will so regret saying no to this day.  And so I said yes.  I sit here now with papers piled beside me, and laundry to do, and e-mail to write, but I had the gift of several uninterrupted hours of just being in the company of one of my favorite people.  No regrets, just lots of memories and I wanted to blog about it so I don&#8217;t forget <img src='http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   And by the way, Ais, that was really yummy lavender coffee and the spinach feta croissant was exceptional.  We&#8217;ll have to figure out the Paris trip somehow&#8230; even if you have to talk to Mother Superior about getting special dispensation for it.  &#8211; love, mom</p>
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		<title>Nino&#8217;s Reading Journal</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 13:53:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Books he&#8217;s been enjoying since November (not including Advent/Christmas books)</p> <p>A mother&#8217;s song / by Janet Lawler<br /> A father&#8217;s song / by Janet Lawler<br /> Marven of the Great North Woods / written by Kathryn Lasky<br /> Pond year / Kathryn Lasky ; illustrated by Mike Bostoc *****<br /> The magic kerchief / by [...]]]></description>
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<p>A mother&#8217;s song / by Janet Lawler<br />
A father&#8217;s song / by Janet Lawler<br />
Marven of the Great North Woods / written by Kathryn Lasky<br />
Pond year / Kathryn Lasky ; illustrated by Mike Bostoc *****<br />
The magic kerchief / by Kirby Larson ; illustrated by Rosanne Litzinger *****<br />
The end / by David LaRochelle ; illustrated by Richard Egielski *****<br />
Snowbaby could not sleep / by Kara LaReau ; illustrated by Jim Ishikawa<br />
The little matador / words and pictures by Julian Hector<br />
Peedie / Olivier Dunrea<br />
Pip in the Grand Hotel / Johannes Hucke, Daniel Müller *****<br />
Merry Christmas, Spot! / Eric Hill<br />
My chair / written by Betsy James ; illustrated by Mary Newell DePalma *****<br />
Picasso and Minou / P.I. Maltbie ; illustrated by Pau Estrada (super-favorite! i love that it has the street we passed, roaming around Montmartre, where Picasso lived, or at least what looks like it) *****<br />
A box full of kittens / story by Sonia Manzano ; illustrated by Matt Phelan<br />
George and Martha rise and shine / James Marshall *****<br />
All for pie, pie for all / David Martin ; illustrated by Valeri Gorbachev *****<br />
When I was born / Isabel Minhós Martins, Madalena Matoso<br />
Mrs. McDockerty&#8217;s knitting / Ruth Martinez ; illustrated by Catharine O&#8217;Neill<br />
A gift from Saint Francis : the first creche / by Joanna Cole ; illustrated by Michele Lemieux *****<br />
The First Noel : a child&#8217;s book of Christmas carols to play and sing. </p>
<p>***** &#8211; Nino&#8217;s favorites</p>
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		<title>My (Current) Favorite Salad:  Celery!!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/celerywalnutsalad.jpg"></a></p> <p>I have never been a celery fan. Especially NOT of those celery sticks served with ranch dip that appear at almost every party table. What makes it worse is it&#8217;s often obviously store-bought, with wilted edges. There it is keeping company with the pretend baby carrots that look dry as a bone, AND [...]]]></description>
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<p>I have never been a celery fan.  Especially NOT of those celery sticks served with ranch dip that appear at almost every party table.  What makes it worse is it&#8217;s often obviously store-bought, with wilted edges.  There it is keeping company with the pretend baby carrots that look dry as a bone, AND the half-yellowing broccoli florets that don&#8217;t even look washed.  Ranch doesn&#8217;t really do anything for celery &#8212; and I suspect people eat the raw veggies just for the sake of being able to say &#8220;I ate something &#8216;healthy&#8217;&#8221; while actually indulging in the ranch dip, which is just about the only tasty thing in that sectioned black plastic tray.  Ugh.  Someone should ban those from the party foods section at the supermarket already.</p>
<p>I *do* love celery cooked.  Of course, as one of the required aromatics in a stew or soup.  I&#8217;ve also, on occasion, enjoyed Julia Child&#8217;s butter-braised celery, but it seems I&#8217;m the only person in the family that does, so nix that.  Celery also HAS to be in Filipino pancit and chop suey, but it is fantastic in this <a href="http://www.andthesethygifts.com/2005/09/10/szechwan-chicken-and-celery-stir-fry/">Szechwan celery-chicken stir fry</a>.</p>
<p>Enter this crunchy, buttery salad &#8212; based on one from Melissa Clark.  Her version has dates, but I&#8217;m picky about dates as well, and don&#8217;t like them in a salad, so I just left them out.  I confess to buying celery now just so I can make this salad as often as I can.  Heh, it helps that I have an excuse to hog it too &#8212; as most of my family either dislike walnuts or are allergic to it.</p>
<blockquote><p>The freshest stalks from a whole celery (I save the outer ones for soup), rinsed and sliced thinly on the diagonal &#8212; use the leaves too if you like<br />
A handful of walnuts toasted in a 350-degree F oven (or toaster &#8212; but be careful not to burn them!) for 7-10 minutes, or until fragrant and JUST beginning to turn color, chopped<br />
juice of half a lemon<br />
tablespoon or so extra virgin olive oil<br />
sea salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste<br />
shavings of Pecorino, Grana Padano or Parmigiano</p>
<p>That&#8217;s it!  Toss in a bowl and eat!  You&#8217;ll be thankful you tried it.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Twenty-Two Years:  Highlights of the Day</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Lovely, lovely day that started out with Mass with the kids at 8:30 am. Bong got special mention from Father in his homily for being 50. Proceeded to Half Day Cafe for brunch, then killing time at Michael&#8217;s while waiting for Aisa to leave for work. Roses came the night before . Migi had to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lovely, lovely day that started out with Mass with the kids at 8:30 am.  Bong got special mention from Father in his homily for being 50.  Proceeded to Half Day Cafe for brunch, then killing time at Michael&#8217;s while waiting for Aisa to leave for work.  Roses came the night before <img src='http://www.andthesethygifts.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  . Migi had to do an interview at 3 so I got to do some cleaning around the house.  Left for an early dinner at 5:30 &#8212; the kids cooked spaghetti with meat sauce for themselves! &#8212; and stopped by a couple of places to run errands while we were out.  All in all a perfectly beautiful day spent with 6 of my most awesome blessings from my Almighty God.  Thank You Lord.</p>
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